In this episode, we’re talking SHIFT with Dr. Bruce Chalmer—a seasoned couples therapist with decades of insight. We get into the real stuff: the 'oh shit' moments that wake people up in therapy, the messiness of faith and forgiveness, and why labeling someone a narcissist might be doing more harm than good.Bruce shares how vulnerability, curiosity, and a little discomfort are actually the point in healing work—and why genuine connection can’t be boxed into categories or quick fixes. We talk telehealth (spoiler: it’s not killing therapy), placebo effects, stats vs. soul, and why the goal isn’t always resolution — it’s growth.This one’s a blend of clinical wisdom and big-hearted truth. For anyone navigating relationships, therapy, or just trying to show up more fully—you’re gonna want to hit play.You’ll hear:🔥 Self-disclosure and why your therapist might (and maybe should) get a little persona🔥 The trap of diagnosis-driven treatment🔥 Why parenting might be the ultimate test of your emotional work🔥 The power of modeling instead of preaching🔥 The dance between disclosure, safety, and intimacy🔥 And yes... we touch on betrayal, repair, and what it really takes to stay00:00 Introduction to Bruce Chalmer and His Work06:05 Therapeutic Approaches and Boundaries14:56 The Essence of Couples Therapy in Seven Words17:55 Understanding the 'Oh Shit' Moment21:14 The Role of Technology in Therapy53:15 The Dangers of Hardening Categories in Therapy01:20:55 Navigating Parenting Challenges, Character Defects, Betrayal and Forgiveness⚡ Ready to shift? Join my Parental SHIFT program and get the support, skills, and community you need.Learn More About Dr. Bruce Chalmer: Couples Therapy in 7 Words & His WebsiteTake Action:Join The Parental SHIFTBook a PREP CallBecome a STEADY FriendGet in Touch: Follow Davina on social media for more resources, tips, and insights into emotional literacy and personal growth:TikTok: @asteadyspaceInstagram & Threads: @asteadyspace Youtube: @asteadyspaceVisit www.asteadyspace.com for more information about coaching services and programs.

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