Owning your healing journey isn’t about chasing a perfect version of yourself—it’s about getting honest, messy, and radically real about what growth actually feels like. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the hard truths we rarely talk about: how easy it is to fake progress, perform healing, and unintentionally gaslight ourselves out of real change.If you’ve ever wondered “am I really healing, or just acting like I am?”, this episode will help you gut-check yourself with love—and show you how to get back on a real, sustainable path forward.I’ll break down:🔥 How to tell if you're performing healing—or actually living it🔥 Why growth doesn’t always feel good (and why that’s not a bad sign)🔥 The dangers of over-intellectualizing your emotions (and how it keeps you stuck)🔥 How to stop using labels (like ADHD, trauma, or personality disorders) as cages🔥 How to use the SHIFT framework (Self, Healing, Innovation, Fortitude, Transformation) to measure real progress—and stay steady when things feel messyThis episode isn’t about looking healed. It’s about building a life that feels steady—even when it’s still under construction.00:01 Welcome to SHIFT Talking: Why this conversation matters 05:55 This week’s theme: Are you really healing—or just performing it? 08:47 Early growth traps: Why progress feels easy at first (and then... doesn't) 13:41 My personal wake-up call: Healing isn’t performative 32:05 What real success looks like—and why it’s never about looking impressive 34:11 Final reminder: Healing is messy, nonlinear, and absolutely worth itThis episode is your reminder that you don’t heal by hating yourself into it—and you definitely don’t heal by faking it. You heal by choosing to show up, one messy, real, steady shift at a time.Take Action:Join The Parental SHIFTBook a PREP CallBecome a STEADY FriendGet in Touch: Follow Davina on social media for more resources, tips, and insights into emotional literacy and personal growth:TikTok: @asteadyspaceInstagram & Threads: @asteadyspace | @your_steady_space | @shifttalkingwithdavinaYoutube: @shifttalkingwithdavinaVisit www.asteadyspace.com for more information about coaching services and programs.Join the Community: Ready to take the next step in your emotional growth journey? Join the Steady Space community for exclusive content, monthly Q&As, and tools to help you stay steady and get your shift together.

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