Transcript for ep 25:Welcome to SHE is Confident. Hi! This is Deon Teh and in this episode, I will be sharing with you about WHAT DO I THINK ABOUT DEBTS.For most people, when they think about their debts, they feel unsafe, and do not dare to let other people know how much they owe and how bad the situation is.Most of us will try to keep or hide the problem, but I found that this is not the way to run away from the problem. Facing it will be better to resolve than running and hiding away. It is not as scary as we think.Ever since we were born, we already have a debt with us, that is owing our parents our lives.I also used to hide away from such problems and it didn't make me feel better , in fact the fear, the worry will always be there until you face it. In business, we often face financial problems. When the customer owes us money, we will not have the money to pay our suppliers and employees and we end up owing them too. I am in charge of the financials in my company. In my previous years, I have to face debt issues, either to pay or to collect. Frankly speaking, I don't feel comfortable doing either of these things. However I do not want to run and hide away. I view it as a mission for me to help the company. I became short tempered and my temper rose up easily. In my world, everything does not move smoothly. It seems like I was ready to pick a fight with anyone anytime and I will also meet people who behave like me and it seems like we are attracting each other. One day, while I was working, suddenly I had a thought that came to my mind. A voice inside me was telling me to think of ways to solve problems instead of blaming thousands of my employees within different departments that they are not co-operating, causing the company to have financial problems. I believe that if everyone is able to work with more love , joy and happiness, it will translate into the work they do and eventually our company products will also be well received by our customers as they are made with love. I communicated with my staff and educated them on how they should workAfter that, I came out with an instalment payment plan for our clients, and we don't have problems collecting money from them. We are not perfect and cannot be. We can only strive to be and try to improve on ourselves each time from the day before. I always believe that a problem is not a problem that cannot be solved, there is bound to have a solution to it. There are no miracles but I managed to see improvement in my life and work due to the things that I have implemented. Whenever there is a problem or I run into issues, I quickly face it and actively make plans to resolve it. It is not as difficult as we think and we are always put off by it due to our past experiences and do not dare to take the first step to pave out the new way. We perhaps want to be in our comfort zone, where we do not need to do anything and expect to see changes automatically. However I can assure you that this is not workable. Once I started to change my mindset and ways of facing my debts or problems, my world changed and everything around me started to work well for me.  I am able to settle many things  and we also need to know that each solution will not be perfect but is workable and the process of solving the problems will train you to become better and better at getting the right solution. Always seek help if you encounter any debts in credit cards, or in business. Don't run away and do keep the promise of repayment, do it with a positive attitude, and talk to your seniors or anyone that can help you or listen to you. Let go of your pride and how others will view you. Only you have the power to change the way people think of you. Practice mindfulness, exercises like yoga and jogging or you can also explore natural places like the jungle, forest or even a garden or a park. Write a daily gratitude journal to count your blessings and let go of your heart and mind. Having debts is not shameful , in fact it is an opportunity for you to rebounce back to life, to have a new lease of life from your previous bad daily habits. You have the power to go towards the right path, with the right thinking and never give up attitude, For every matter, there will be positive and negative views, however the choice is yours on how you can make it positive and everything will be alright.If you want to talk about transforming your inner child, healing your relationships with yourself and money, connect with me through my Facebook and the link is in the show notes.Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/I look forward to seeing you in my next episode where I will be sharing with you LOVE, HAPPY & JOYFUL

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