Send us a textoin Wes Tankersley on this episode of shaping success as he talks with Enlifted coach Jerika Maher, who specializes in relationships. She discusses how life lessons were her teacher and gave her the ability to help people. Jerika grew up in Vallejo, California which is a poor city near San Francisco. She talks about her struggles growing up with a young mother and an absent father and step father. She had another step father that provided for the family but didn't like or love her, and it showed. As a result, she grew up a people pleaser constantly searching for his love and approval. Jerika talks about the characteristics of the people pleaser and how they have no baseline for stress. They are searching for external validation from others . She also discusses how people pleasers are very similar to empaths. The key to breaking the cycle of people pleasing is to choose you and say "I'm worth more."Jerika and Wes talk about how parents don't teach their kids how to interact or communicate. The kids then grow up not knowing how to communicate with their partner. Stay tuned when Wes and Jerika discuss different relationship patterns such as people pleasers with narcissists. This will give new insight on how to handle a narcissist. Another great insight Jerika brings up is how empaths and people pleasers overlap in their traits.Love is not enough. Jerika explains why in this episode. Join Wes and Jerika for this fascinating discussion.#relationships #words #patterns #communication #love #insights Follow Jerika Maher on Instagram @jerika.AlexisFollow Wes Tankersley on Instagram and TikTok @wes.TankersleyFacebook: Facebook.com/Wes TankersleyFollow Shaping Success now on TikTok: @shapingsuccesspodcastSupport the showFor merchandise, podcast and youtube: westankersley.comYou have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% off yourfirst subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code WEST20 atcheckoutYou can claim it at:https://magicmind.com/WEST20Join The Patreonhttps://patreon.com/WestankersleyFollow Shaping Success https://shapingsuccesspodcast.buzzsprout.com/Get Ars Victorioushttps://a.co/d/5f4todGhttps://a.co/d/5f4todGEmail [email protected] for guest ideas or to be on the show!

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