Why We Don't Go To Church

23/01/2024 38 min Episodio 41
Why We Don't Go To Church

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In this SeongLife episode, Daniel and Christina Seong explore their complex relationship with the church. Christina recalls strict rules imposed by her pastor father, which led to a negative perception of Christianity. Both hosts view the church as a business that uses guilt to increase involvement. While they identify as Christians, they don't attend church regularly, feeling many churchgoers are hypocritical. Daniel found solace in a church retreat but became disillusioned with corrupt pastors and controlling church atmospheres. The hosts aim to raise their children with faith but without forcing it. They prioritize raw and practical discussions, sharing personal experiences and viewpoints. This unfiltered discussion delves into their struggles finding a home church, their inconsistent religious practices, and their desire for their children to make their own choices about religion.   3 Key Episode Takeaways: 1. The complexity of personal faith: Daniel and Christina offer insights into their experiences with Christianity, highlighting the nuances of their beliefs and the impact of childhood upbringing on their attitudes toward religion. 2.Navigating church community dynamics: The hosts candidly address their observations of hypocrisy and challenges within the church, providing thought-provoking perspectives on the intersection of religious practices and personal values. 3. Parenting and faith: Offering a glimpse into their approach to raising their children within the context of Christianity, the hosts emphasize the importance of allowing their kids to make their own choices about religion while sharing their own authentic perspectives.   Show Outline 01:23 Podcast discusses raw, real church experiences. 05:18 Grew up in church with many pastors. 10:32 Struggled with church, but found solace eventually. 14:20 Established strong connections at church, then outgrew it. 18:23 Christianity is more about core beliefs. 20:16 Personal relationship with God, not bound by rules. 25:06 Parents have faith in kids' good choices. 27:35 Optimistic reflection on church experiences during COVID. 29:52 Warning about the danger of falling into cults. 35:49 Belief in ghosts, miracles and holy spirits. 36:42 Grateful for miracle, faith guides daily actions.