In this episode, we dive into the psychological and neurochemical patterns that fuel the chase in romantic relationships. Why do we feel more drawn to the unavailable? What role does our brain chemistry—particularly dopamine—play in our pursuit of connection?We explore how the brain’s reward system reinforces attachment patterns, especially for those with insecure attachment or low self-worth. The conversation unpacks how fleeting romantic pursuits can become a cycle of seeking external validation, often rooted in fear of intimacy or self-sabotage.Listeners will learn strategies for shifting their mindset, regulating emotional responses, and redefining what healthy connection looks like. By practicing mindful dating and exploring emotional triggers, we can begin to break toxic patterns and build genuine, lasting relationships.Timestamps: 00:00 – 00:45 Understanding the Chase: The Role of Neurochemistry 00:45 – 02:29 The Brain’s Reward System & Attachment Styles 02:29 – 03:54 The Illusion of Effort & Fear of Intimacy 03:54 – 05:06 Self-Worth & the Trap of External Validation 05:06 – 06:33 Breaking the Cycle: Mindset Shifts & Emotional Regulation 06:33 – 07:09 Self-Sabotage & Fear of Commitment 07:09 – 08:30 Next Steps: Shifting Patterns & Defining Your Ideal PartnerThis episode is a powerful reflection for anyone who finds themselves chasing love that feels just out of reach. Tune in to understand the deeper patterns at play—and how to change them.Stay Connected: Have a question or a topic you'd love explored? Submit it for a future episode! Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes content and more: @lauracaruso.therapy

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