What happens when the very tactics that make you successful in business destroy everything that matters at home? Phil Herrington spent 33 years perfecting the art of aggressive sales - cold calling, door-to-door, trampling over objections and people alike. He called himself "a rhino" because he bulldozed through relationships for quick wins."30 calls a day keeps poverty away" was his mantra. He made millions by treating every interaction as a transaction, every person as a target, every relationship as disposable.Then his marriage became the casualty.The divorce hit him like a freight train, forcing him to face a devastating truth: the ruthless tactics that built his career had made him incapable of real connection. He was a master at getting what he wanted from people, but had never learned how to actually care about them.Alone in Boise, knowing nobody, Phil had to choose: keep being the rhino who trampled hearts for profit, or learn what he'd spent 33 years destroying - how to build genuine relationships.Discover how a man who burned bridges for business learned to become "The Connector" - and why the skills that make you unstoppable professionally might be the exact things killing your marriage.Timestamps:[02:15] The "rhino mentality" that destroyed relationships for profit[05:30] When 33 years of trampling people caught up with him[08:45] The divorce that forced him to face the truth[12:20] Learning connection from scratch at rock bottom[16:40] Why business tactics and love tactics are opposites[20:10] How to stop being a rhino at homeSend us a textSupport the show If You’ve Been Hooked on These Episodes… This Is for You If this podcast has been landing deep… if each story feels like it’s peeling back something raw and real in you… then don’t ignore that. Every guest you’ve heard made the same decision: to stop performing and start healing. Now it’s your turn. Take the Silent Collapse Diagnostic. It’s not a quiz. It’s a wake-up tool for women who are done pretending they’re fine. No fluff. No journaling prompts. Just a straight-up mirror into where you’re silently collapsing behind the mask of success. If you're serious about reclaiming your energy, your clarity, your life start there. Because breakthrough doesn’t begin with doing more. It begins with finally seeing what’s been stealing your power. Take the self-audit now. Learn more about Baz Porter at www.bazporter.com

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