Money Isn’t About Money – A Deep Dive into Money Maps

27/08/2024 17 min Temporada 5 Episodio 87

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Episode Synopsis

In this episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller explores the deep and often hidden meanings behind our financial behaviors through the concept of Money Maps, as introduced by Dr. John Gottman. The episode dives into how our personal histories—shaped by childhood, teenage, and adult experiences—create unique Money Maps that guide our relationship with money throughout life.

Rich uses a detailed case study of a couple, Lisa and Mark, to illustrate how differing Money Maps can lead to conflicts in relationships. Lisa, who grew up in a financially unstable household, views money as security, while Mark, raised in an affluent environment, sees money as a means of freedom and enjoyment. Their differing perspectives create tension and misunderstandings, especially when it comes to spending and saving.

Throughout the episode, Rich emphasizes that financial conflicts are rarely about the money itself. Instead, they are deeply tied to our emotions, identity, and the meaning we attach to money. He encourages listeners to explore their own Money Maps and those of their partners, offering strategies for understanding and harmonizing these different perspectives.

By the end of the episode, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the emotional landscape of finances in relationships and how to navigate money conflicts with empathy and mutual respect.

Tune in to discover how understanding your Money Map can transform your financial conversations and strengthen your relationship. Go to richinrelationship.com for free marriage resources to help end fighting and divorce as well as recover from infidelity.

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