We want to hear from you! Send us a text with your thoughts or feedback! :)In this episode of Rethinking Manhood, I get to sit down with Ashley Paul (@driedinkpen), a brilliant content contributor with @FeministBookClub.About Ashley: Ashley Paul is a traveler, runner, and baker. She is an Everlasting Bookworm and Culture Maven. She is passionate about supporting high school juniors and seniors to write compelling stories for their post-secondary careers. She loves stories with social commentary, atmospheric writing, and compelling characters.About the Episode:Together we talk about the divide between Black men and women (the gender wars) that has become a cultural flashpoint, fueled by social media algorithms and the temptation to reduce complex human relationships to oversimplified stereotypes. But what happens when we pause the gender wars to examine what authentic connection might look like?Ashley unpacks a different pathway forward: "Black men and women need to earn each other." This isn't about creating more hoops to jump through, but rather acknowledging that meaningful relationships require intentional effort and respect rather than assumptions. Ashley shares how her own friendships with men have evolved from childhood playground interactions to adult relationships grounded in mutual respect and understanding.We dive deep into media representations that drive wedges between Black men and women, examining how these portrayals influence everything from dating experiences to platonic friendships. The conversation takes unexpected turns, from analyzing Kendrick Lamar and Drake to discussing how churches simultaneously preserve cultural touchstones while sometimes reinforcing harmful gender dynamics.MY FAVORITE PART OF THE EPISODE! We celebrate the rich tapestry of positive Black male relationships already depicted in media – from classic sitcoms like The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air to contemporary shows like Johnson – proving that healthy Black masculinity has always existed when we know where to look. Links and Resources: Purchase My Book: The Rules We Live By Stories and Reflections on Unlearning Patriarchal Masculinity Connect with Feminist Book Club! Support the showWant to get more connected with Rethinking Manhood? Follow us on Instagram Support through our BuyMeACoffee Page Send us an email at [email protected] Visit my website at destynland.com

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