Thanks to our Partner, NAPA Autotech Training and Pico TechnologyWatch Full Video EpisodeKey Discussion Points:Two Types of Angry PeopleExplosive: Outwardly aggressive (e.g., yelling at a cashier).Implosive: Bottled-up anger that can lead to extreme reactions (e.g., the quiet cashier who "snaps").No One Starts at 100% AngerAnger escalates in stages—people don’t go from 0 to 100 instantly.Triggers (work stress, home life, past trauma) compound over time.Personal Reflection: Parenting & ADHDMatt shares struggles with his son’s ADHD and his own reactive anger.Realization: Frustration often stemmed from unrealistic expectations, not the child’s behavior.Lesson: Awareness is key—but applying knowledge is harder than reciting it.Handling Anger in the WorkplaceFor Leaders/Co-workers:Approach outbursts with curiosity, not defensiveness.Validate feelings without justifying bad behavior.Ask: "What else is going on?" (e.g., home stress, financial fears).For Customers:High-conflict clients may already be at "50%" before they walk in.Respond with calm energy, active listening, and empathy.Example: "I understand why you’re scared. It’s hard to trust when you’re unsure."De-escalation TacticsMirroring: Match the energy level you want (e.g., stay calm to diffuse rage).Validation: Acknowledge emotions without agreeing to unreasonable demands.Safety First: Remove yourself or others if the situation escalates dangerously.Why This Matters in the AftermarketMost customer outbursts are rooted in fear (e.g., being ripped off, losing control).A thoughtful response can turn a raging customer into a loyal one—or reveal irreconcilable differences.Thanks to our Partner, NAPA Autotech TrainingNAPA Autotech’s team of ASE Master Certified Instructors are conducting over 1,200 classes covering 28 automotive topics. To see a selection, go to napaautotech.com for more details.Thanks to our Partner, Pico TechnologyAre you chasing elusive automotive problems? Pico Technology empowers you to see what's really happening. Their PicoScope oscilloscopes transform your diagnostic capabilities. Pinpoint faults in sensors, wiring, and components with unmatched accuracy. Visit PicoAuto.com and revolutionize your diagnostics today!  Contact InformationEmail Matt: [email protected] the Aftermarket A - Z YouTube Channel Subscribe & Review: Loved this episode? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyThe Aftermarket Radio Network: https://aftermarketradionetwork.com/Remarkable Results Radio Podcast with Carm Capriotto: Advancing the Aftermarket by Facilitating Wisdom Through Story Telling and Open Discussion.

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