Dr. Bruce Chalmer explores the transformative power of forgiveness after betrayal, sharing insights from his 30+ years as a psychologist specializing in couples therapy. He reveals a practical three-step forgiveness process that creates internal freedom and healing even after the most painful betrayals.• Betrayal comes in many forms beyond infidelity, including financial deception and broken trust between family members• Initial shock after betrayal requires triage-like care before making major decisions• Forgiveness is "an inside job" that releases you from pain rather than excusing the betrayer• Dr. Chalmer's three-step forgiveness process: forgive yourself, forgive the person who hurt you, and "forgive God"• Faith (religious or secular) helps us find meaning in suffering instead of despair• Our tendency to blame ourselves for betrayal comes from a deep need for control• Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation or continuing the relationship• Personal transformation often emerges from confronting our deepest painRemember Matthew 5:14: be the light. Head over to iTunes and subscribe, and post a review for a chance to win a $25,000 private VIP day with Sylvia Worsham. Visit ReleasedOutRevealPurposePodcast.com for Sylvia's free gift.To download a free chapter of host Sylvia Worsham's bestselling book, In Faith, I Thrive: Finding Joy Through God's Masterplan, visit her website at www.sylviaworsham.com

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