Everyone’s heard the classic advice: say no to peer pressure. In situations where friends or others are trying to get someone to do something dangerous or destructive, that’s the right response – but are there times when peer pressure is actually a good thing?On the second episode of RealiteenTALKS with host Gary McGuey, McGuey and a trio of teen guests tackled the topic, exploring when being pushed by those close to you can result in personal growth.There are clearly identifiable traits of positive peer pressure. Friends encouraging one another to work hard and do the right thing is one, as are support in difficult times and affirmation.There are also red flags in the other direction, the group agreed. Sometimes, friends gradually lose their way and, even you’ve been close to them for years, a gut feeling or feeling of being conflicted about something they’ve asked you to do can tip you off that something’s not quite right.“Those red flags start to look a little bit yellow if they’ve been your friend forever,” one guest said.One key to experiencing positive peer pressure, though it can come from anyone, is paying care attention to those closest to you and ensuring that the trust you place in them is based on genuine relationships and a desire to see one another succeed.Subscribe to RealiTEEN Talks for more insights about the issues facing today’s teenagers.

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