What happens when a child spills leftovers on the kitchen floor and immediately labels himself "stupid"? For author Brenda Do, this heartbreaking moment sparked the creation of It's Okay Not to Know, a children's book challenging our perfection-obsessed culture.Growing up Chinese in 1970s America, Brenda never saw herself represented in children's literature; every book featured white children. This experience shaped her determination to create characters that every child could identify with, regardless of appearance or background. So she created a world of colorful monsters with the gender-neutral protagonist leading readers through lessons of self-compassion and curiosity.Brenda draws fascinating connections between childhood messaging and adult behavior, noting how our early experiences with "failure" shape our willingness to take risks later in life. She references Stanford professor Carol Dweck's groundbreaking research on growth mindset, explaining how praising effort rather than results can dramatically expand children's potential. With just 230 words and playful rhyming text, Brenda describes it as "Dr. Seuss meets Brené Brown" - simple language conveying profound emotional intelligence.Have a comment? Text me! Support the show****************************************************************************Connect with Natasha If you’re ready to write your book, I’d love to help you bring your story to life. 👉 Explore my 1:1 Book Coaching Program: https://www.readandwritewithnatasha.com/coaching Read My Writing & Learn With Me 📬 Substack — Read & Write with Natasha https://natashatynes.substack.com Follow Me 🌐 Website: https://www.readandwritewithnatasha.com 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natashatynes 🐦 Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/NatashaTynes 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/natasha.tynes ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@readandwritewithnatasha

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