Dealing with Judgment of Self & of Others

07/02/2022 28 min Temporada 1 Episodio 31
Dealing with Judgment of Self & of Others

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Episode # 31 - We discuss Judgment of self and Judgment of others. We may do it unconsciously or  consciously.Words are powerful so let's First  look at what its means to have judgment. Judgment is defined by the good ole Webster dictionary as "an opinion or decision that is based on careful thought"Now, the thing is....We lack the careful thought of where the judgment is coming from or even why we have the judgmentIn this episode we will give it careful thought and discuss the three types of judgment1) Direct Self-judgment (self -> self)2) Judgement of others (self -> others)3) judgment of self from others (self -> others -> self)Self-Judgment Examples would sound like..."I am so stupid""I am not good at this""I am a bad person""I am in-considerate""I am selfish" Self-Judgment through others Examples would sound like..."They think I am stupid""They think I am boring"To change self-judgment we would need to...1) Give careful thought to why we have this judgment of our self 2) See the Polarity and choose the Re-frame based on what you wantWe will look closely at the judgment that "I am selfish" with careful thought and reframe it in this episode so you can learn how to do so with any other judgments you may have. Alan Watts stated that "It is only in terms of others that you even have a self at all" so if the self is a mere reflection of others then being selfish is a form of selfless.Judgment of others  :Examples would sound like..."They are thoughtless""They are selfish""They are self-centered""They are stupid"To change Judgment of others we would need to...1) See what you are judging being a lack of acceptance or rejection of that which is within yourselfConnect on social mediaInstagram -  https://www.instagram.com/annbalkanskiTwitter - https://twitter.com/annbalkanskiVisit our website - https://www.rapidrealization.comWant to join our Realization Network? Learn more here -  https://www.rapidrealization.com/realization-networkSupport the Show.