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Episode Synopsis
Have questions about fertility, dating, or the pressure to "have it all figured out"? Psychotherapist Beth Gulotta is here to answer them honestly, openly, and with her signature mix of humor and heart. In this new question-and-answer style episode, she dives into real questions from real viewers, offering professional insights you won't hear anywhere else. From navigating the emotional ups and downs of fertility struggles to figuring out how to date in a world full of expectations, Beth combines her personal stories, clinical expertise, and practical tips to help you live life on your own terms. Get ready for a Q&A that's full of laughs, surprises, and aha moments. Perfect for anyone tired of society's timelines and ready to embrace their own path with confidence, curiosity, and a little bit of fun! We Also Talk About: The power of personal narratives and self-reflection in overcoming challenges. The importance of pursuing education and new goals at any age. Strategies for handling judgment as an older mother and embracing personal journeys. The emotional and financial aspects of fertility struggles, including IVF. Support for embryo adoption as a valid family-building option. The influence of personal fertility experiences on professional therapy practices. The need for earlier discussions about fertility and societal expectations. Navigating age gap dating and the significance of emotional maturity over age. Managing dating burnout and the importance of taking breaks. The impact of life changes on friendships and the need for self-care in relationships. 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(00:01:52)** Beth reassures a 47-year-old listener that it's never too late to go back to school or start again. **Handling Judgment as an Older Mother & IVF Struggles (00:02:55)** Beth shares her experience with judgment for becoming a mother in her 40s, normalizes losing hope during fertility treatments, and discusses financial planning for IVF. **Thoughts on Embryo Adoption & Fertility Journey's Impact (00:05:15)** Beth expresses support for embryo adoption, references a guest's story, and explains how her fertility journey has shaped her therapy practice. **Openness About Fertility & Early Education (00:06:17)** Beth discusses balancing privacy with openness about her journey and advocates for more education and open conversations about fertility earlier in life. **Dating: Age Gaps, Burnout, and Shame (00:07:22)** Beth addresses concerns about dating someone younger, reframes the idea of wasted time in relationships, and encourages self-reflection to overcome shame about dating later in life. **Friendships, Culture Change, and Podcast Inspiration (00:12:13)** Beth discusses grieving friendship changes due to life events, reflects on technological advances in fertility and dating, and shares what inspired her to start the podcast. **Advice, Favorite Episodes, and Closing (00:14:26)** Beth urges women not to feel behind, recommends browsing episodes by topic, and expresses gratitude for listeners. ➡️ SUBSCRIBE TO THE CHANNEL ↪️ SHARE THIS ON SOCIAL OR WITH A FRIEND GO SUBSCRIBE on All Streaming Platforms!!
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