Pleasure After 50: How Ageing Changes Sex, Desire, and Intimacy with Karen Bigman

11/09/2025 18 min
Pleasure After 50: How Ageing Changes Sex, Desire, and Intimacy with Karen Bigman

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On this episode of Pleasure Principles (hosted by Avik), certified sexuality educator and menopause coach Karen Bigman breaks down what really happens to libido, desire, and intimacy after 50—and how to keep sex joyful at any age. We cover menopause, hormone shifts, erectile dysfunction, responsive vs. spontaneous desire, communication, and practical tools (from HRT to mindset and skill-building) so couples can move from routine to renewed connection. Direct, evidence-informed, and stigma-free—this conversation is built to rank and resonate across YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and search.
 About the Guest  : 
Karen Bigman is the host of Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50, a certified sexuality educator, menopause coach, and relationship guide. She teaches adults how to navigate changing bodies, desires, and relationships with clarity and consent.
Key Takeaways:


Sex doesn’t “end” with age—it evolves. Expect changes and adapt intentionally with health checks, communication, and skill-building.


Responsive desire is normal. After the new-relationship phase, desire often follows arousal and context; plan for it rather than waiting for “lightning.”


Health first. Address menopause symptoms, pain, pelvic floor issues, and erectile dysfunction with qualified professionals; consider evidence-based options (e.g., HRT when appropriate and doctor-advised).


Testosterone matters for all genders. Work with clinicians to evaluate hormones; do not self-medicate.


Skill beats myth. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm; learn anatomy and techniques that fit your bodies now.


Talk before touch. Use a “Yes–No–Maybe” list to name interests, boundaries, and consent; discuss outside the bedroom to lower pressure.


Redefine what “sex” means. Intimacy can be broader than a single script; include touch, sensuality, and connection practices.


Small actions reignite momentum. Curiosity, planning, and compassionate honesty help long-term couples rebuild passion.


How to Connect with the Guest  


Podcast: Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 (all major platforms and YouTube)


Website & Contact: TabooToTruth.com


Programs: “Hotter, Wiser, Wilder” adult sex education masterclass (details on her website)


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