3: Love You, Mean It? Social Media vs Reality

11/03/2025 44 min
3: Love You, Mean It? Social Media vs Reality

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Episode Synopsis

In today’s world, friendship isn’t just about who you talk to on the daily, it’s also about who hypes you up. But is social media warping the way we define friendships?

In this episode, Vernika and Monique get real, raw, and just a little petty about the blurred lines between true friends and social media acquaintances. They break down the fake love, the unspoken rules, and why not every "friend" is really rooting for you. Unpacking the rules of modern friendships and spilling their own tea, tune in as your Best Frens challenge you to rethink what it really means to be a best friend.

Hit play now and get into this hilarious, unfiltered conversation about what friendships really look like in the digital age.


KEY POINTS 
- Differentiating social media friends from real friends
- Key qualities that define a ‘true friend’ vs an ‘associate’
- The role of loyalty in maintaining strong friendships
- Navigating male friendships while in a committed relationship
- The importance of recognizing genuine support 
- The impact of social media on friendship dynamics
- The pivotal role of encouraging positive, collaborative friendships 

QUOTES 

"Social media is a fairyland. I don't take it seriously. I don't make it a part of my life for real."

"Collaboration over competition. Stop trying to compete with your friends. Two heads [are] better than one. Get together with your friends and put your heads together, baby, and we're about to make things shake this year."

"Love and loyalty, that's the key guys for a strong, successful friendship."

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