💭 When you're giving your all—and they’re holding back—it can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and alone. In this episode, we’re unpacking emotional unavailability: why it happens, how to spot it, and what the hell to do when you're falling for someone who can’t (or won’t) let you in.
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Inside This Episode:
🚫 What emotional unavailability actually is. From subtle detachment to outright avoidance—how to tell if it’s a wall or a fortress.
💔 The signs to look for. If deep chats feel like pulling teeth, vulnerability is off-limits, or they vanish when things get real—this one’s for you.
🧠 Where it comes from. Attachment styles, past heartbreak, emotional overload—why some people build walls instead of bridges.
🥀 The impact on you. Loneliness, low self-worth, feeling like you’re chasing love with no finish line in sight.
🛠️ Can they change? Supporting growth is one thing—trying to fix someone who’s not emotionally available? That’s a whole other story.
⚠️ Boundaries, not burnout. How to protect your energy, set expectations, and stop blaming yourself for their distance.
🗣️ How to talk about it. Expressing your needs without pushing them away—or losing your voice in the process.
⏳ Stay or go? What to do if they want to grow but aren’t ready—vs. when it’s clear they’re not capable of giving what you need.
🧑‍⚕️ Therapy and healing. How professional support can help them open up—and help you reconnect with your own needs and worth.
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💬 Let’s Keep This Conversation Going!
Have you loved someone who just couldn’t meet you emotionally? Are you there now? I want to hear your story. Let’s talk—DM me, email me, or join the convo on socials.
And if this episode gave you clarity or comfort, pass it on to someone who needs to hear it. Until next time—protect your heart, honour your needs, and never settle for one-sided love. 💛

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