This week’s Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow looks a little different… with Colm away and Terry missing in action, Rebecca and Beatrice take over the mic — with Justin looking on nervously in the corner.Following Beatrice’s special episode, the Aftershow dives into:20 years of marriage — what really makes it workRespect, independence, and why couples don’t need to do everything togetherThe “mental load” and how women often carry the invisible weight at homeLetting go of perfection vs. letting resentment festerWhy laughter, communication, and even scheduled sex keep a relationship alive💡 This one blends honesty and humour — from shoes left on the stairs to vaccum wars, household roles, and why communication beats resentment every time.⏱️ Chapter List00:00 – Aftershow Takeover (Rebecca & Beatrice on the couch)02:00 – 20 Years of Marriage: What’s Changed03:42 – Respect, Independence & Still Laughing05:00 – Who Starts the Hard Conversations?07:38 – Letting Go vs. Resentment09:30 – Household Roles: The Mental Load12:21 – Running a Family Like a Business13:39 – Style, Clean Homes & Instagram Pressure16:07 – Shoes on the Stairs (and Why Men Don’t See Them)18:42 – What Men Really Think About20:52 – When Therapy Helps (and When It’s Too Late)21:48 – Sex, Date Nights & Laughter After 20 YearsHighlights“You’re not the same person you were 20 years ago — respect that evolution.”“The mental load is like running a corporation — except there’s no shares and no money.”“I used to get annoyed about the bins and the dishwasher. Now I just let it go.”“If resentment festers too long, it’s generally over.”“Laughter and respect keep a marriage alive — not the dishwasher.”#NotSoChristianBrothers#MarriagePodcast#MensMentalHealth#MarriageAfter20Years#MentalLoad#ModernMarriage#CouplesPodcast#MarriageConversations#JustinCaffrey#BeatriceCaffrey#RebeccaHoran#IrishPodcast#RelationshipPodcast#MarriageAdvice#PodcastClips Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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