Listen "How to have SMALL TALK with anyone"
Episode Synopsis
How to have fulfilling conversations that flows and feels good from the inside out.
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0:00 Introduction
0:42 Icebreakers
1:49 Flowing into Conversations
4:11 Balance in Conversations
5:42 Keeping Conversations Going
10:09 More Resources
TIPS:
Balance Confidence + Comfort as your base (breathe to realign)
Tune into the current environment for ice breakers (be present and use your senses)
Compliment/be curious about physical attributes, energy, presence
Ping-pong things about them back to relevant stories about you
Take initiative to guide conversations to stay in a ‘ping-pong’ balance
Allow silences, relax into your confident/comfortable base
No similarities? Relate to similar emotions in experiences
Ask things you’ve been conscious/curious about yourself recently
Stay regulated in confidence/comfort/curiousity to ask/say whatever you’d like
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