How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING

16/12/2023 11 min Episodio 28
How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING

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Episode Synopsis


Save your energy, smile without laughter-padding, and BE REAL.
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TIPS:
Start with slow and soft energy
Share only what you want to share
Be calm and concise in honesty
Soften honesty with gratitude
Instead of conforming, do nothing
Instead of conforming, get curious
Be light and nonchalant
Observe and refine without emotion (aka meditate and cry/vent later lol)
Know how you ideally want to socialize (if you’re like me - you want to be able to be both chill and playful, take jokes and make jokes. Find your balance.)
Flow with your natural expressions (sharp and/or soft)

 
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
 
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