Listen "Five Secrets to Strong Bonds With Adult Children-A conversation with Brooke Oniki"
Episode Synopsis
Parenting doesn’t end when your kids become adults—but the rules change. In this heartfelt episode of Midlife with Brooke, certified life coach Brooke Oniki shares her personal journey of learning to parent adult children with love, respect, and faith.Interviewed by fellow coach Sara Payne, Brooke opens up about her own transition into the empty nest years, the pain of letting go, and the joy of creating new, healthy connections with her grown children. She shares five powerful secrets that will help you strengthen your bond with your adult kids without control, guilt, or fear.You’ll learn:Why having “your own stuff” (purpose, passions, interests) matters for healthy connectionHow to check in with your motivations before reaching outThe difference between listening to fix and listening to understandHow to receive feedback from your kids with curiosity instead of defensivenessWhy believing in your children’s ability to figure life out is one of the greatest gifts you can give themBrooke also shares personal stories of moments when she wanted to push her agenda—but instead chose trust, listening, and respect, leading to deeper connection and mutual confidence.Reflection Prompts:Do I have passions, projects, or callings outside of my kids that bring me fulfillment?When I reach out, am I motivated by love or by insecurity?How do I respond when my kids share feedback that stings?Where can I show more belief in my adult child’s capacity to grow?✨ Free Resource from Brooke Oniki:Watch Brooke’s free video workshop on How to Stop Having a Manual for Your Kids—a step-by-step guide to letting go of rigid expectations and creating more peace in your relationships. Available at www.brookeoniki.com✨ Bonus for Listeners:Brooke also recorded two bonus private podcast episodes just for women in midlife:Menopause Explained with Nurse Practitioner Gretchen ForsEnjoying Sex in Midlife with Certified Sex Coach Julie MerrillGet instant access here: Get the Bonus Episodes✨ Want personal support?Schedule a free one-on-one coaching session with Brooke here: Book Your Call
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