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Episode Synopsis
Send us a textIn this episode of Sober-ish Sparkle, I sit down with the fabulous Vic Vanstone – co-host of the Sober Awkward podcast and author of A Thousand Wasted Sundays. Vic brings her signature humour, heart, and hard-won wisdom to a raw and real conversation about grey area drinking, motherhood, social pressure, and how sobriety transformed her life.We explore Vic’s journey from weekend binge drinking to writing, podcasting, and thriving on the Sunshine Coast. She opens up about feeling like she didn’t “qualify” for help because she wasn’t at rock bottom – and why she now champions a new narrative around what it means to question your relationship with alcohol.In this episode, we unpack:What grey area drinking really looks like – and why so many women relateHow cultural conditioning and family patterns shape our drinking habitsVic’s experience navigating early sobriety while parenting young kidsThe lie of “moderation” and why some of us just can’t drink lessCreating new social scaffolding without boozeHow anxiety, alcohol, and identity collide in midlifeWhy asking for help before rock bottom is not just okay – it’s braveThe power of humour and storytelling in making sobriety relatableVic’s writing journey and how giving up alcohol unlocked her creativityTips for handling “unexpected alcohol” in everyday situationsWe also chat about ditching shame, embracing awkwardness, and how the most unexpected benefits of sobriety often come from just getting curious. Vic’s story is a breath of fresh air – down-to-earth, deeply relatable, and proof that a joyful alcohol-free life is not only possible, it’s bloody brilliant.Whether you're already sober or just dipping your toe into the curious end of things, this episode will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and less alone.✨ Want more support on your journey? Join the waitlist for my 1-month course Winter Warm-Up: Get Your Sober Sparkle – created especially for midlife women ready to explore a more energised, clear-headed way of living. 📝 Read Vic’s book A Thousand Wasted Sundays or tune into the Sober Awkward podcast wherever you get your podcasts.You don’t have to hit rock bottom to want something different – you just have to start asking better questions.
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