Listen "Steps to Move From Rumination > to > Processing"
Episode Synopsis
Last time we talked about ruminating vs. processing. This week, I’m walking you through the how—practical steps to move through pain even if the other person doesn’t respond well.Here’s the framework:Notice your looping → instead, name the feelingUntangle your worth from their behaviorRemind yourself: I can be okay even if…Stay rooted in your power—choose your next stepLooping keeps you stuck, but processing sets you free.Podcasts Referenced in this episode: Quit Mind Reading (stop assuming, start asking) Offended? Check your boundariesGet my Habit Reboot E-Course! Support the show------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->>> Become a sponor of our shows <<<This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!patreon.com/TheHabitLabCheck out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more. Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!Links: Online Small Group - Porn Recovery Course Couples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health Coaching Book: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn
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