Episode 237: When Silence Becomes Your Shield

21/10/2025 16 min Episodio 237
Episode 237: When Silence Becomes Your Shield

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Silence in a marriage can feel like the safest choice. The silent treatment is a shield we use to protect ourselves. When old childhood wounds or emotional triggers surface, it can become a natural response to withdraw.I share my personal journey of understanding the silence in my own marriage. What I discovered is that it wasn’t about shutting my partner out—it was a cry to feel seen, held, and safe. Recognizing these hidden emotions allowed me to create deeper connection, intimacy, and emotional safety in my relationship.Silence can also deepen emotional disconnection and fuel resentment if left unchecked. We’ll explore how to respond differently: stay present, communicate your truth, and process emotions without withdrawing.If you’ve ever gone quiet to protect your heart or avoid conflict, this episode will help you uncover what that silence is really saying—and transform it into understanding, closeness, and conscious communication.–The Conscious Marriage Method is your roadmap to transforming old relationship patterns into lasting connection. With guided coaching and practical exercises, you’ll heal old wounds, speak your truth, and create a marriage full of intimacy, trust, and joy. Click here to explore–Connect with Deanna:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deannaherrin/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deanna-herrin/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedeannaherrinWebsite: http://www.deannaherrin.net