Explores the dynamics of self-sabotage in relationships, showing how people who grew up feeling emotionally overlooked may later struggle to accept love. Using the example of Sarah and Dan, it illustrates how Dan’s experience of his mother consistently prioritizing his sister left him with a lasting sense of unworthiness and mistrust. As an adult, this wound leads him not to welcome affection but to question it, resist it, or even undermine it, fearing the pain of eventual disappointment. Rather than signalling ingratitude or malice, such behavior reflects an unconscious defense mechanism formed in childhood. The text concludes that only by recognizing and working through these **distorted expectations—often with the help of therapy—**can someone stop the impulse to destroy otherwise healthy relationships and learn to accept genuine care.You can listen and download our episodes for free on more than 10 different platforms:https://linktr.ee/life_notesProduced by:https://www.podcaistudio.com/

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