Two Surrogacy Journeys, One Surrogate's Unstoppable Heart

02/09/2025 55 min
Two Surrogacy Journeys, One Surrogate's Unstoppable Heart

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What happens when a surrogate faces failed pregnancy after failed pregnancy, and still chooses hope?In this raw and inspiring episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", Madie, a two-time surrogate opens up about her decade-long journey of resilience and the powerful bond between surrogates and intended parents. Madie walks us through her three journeys, the emotional highs and crushing lows, and how she went from feeling “damaged goods” to successfully helping two families grow. Whether you’re a hopeful surrogate, an intended parent or just curious about what it really takes to be a surrogate, this is a surrogacy story you won’t forget.Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3sDrop your thoughts or questions in the comments!Learn more or start your surrogacy journey:Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacyIf you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit:https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsurIf you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip00:00 - Intro00:17 - What Inspired Madie to Become a Surrogate?01:46 - Her Husband’s Reaction to Surrogacy03:21 - When Madie Started Her First Surrogacy Journey04:19 - First-Time Surrogate Emotions & Hesitations07:14 - Madie's First Experience with the Intended Parents08:24 - What Makes a Great Surrogacy Match?10:45 - Working as a Waitress During Pregnancy12:53 - Explaining Surrogacy to Her Kids14:29 - The First Match: Embryo Transfers & The Emotional Toll of Miscarriage19:20 - Success at Last: A Baby Girl Is Born21:19 - How the IPs Supported Madie throughout the Journey24:25 - Madie's Relationship with Her IPs Today26:07 - The Second Journey: Three Transfers, No Baby  29:02 - When Emotional Burnout Happens  30:06 - Trying an Independent Journey  32:59 - Another Failed Transfer & Heavy Reflection  35:26 - Rebuilding Confidence After Failure  36:09 - Her Final Journey: 2 Dads, 1 Rainbow Baby  38:34 - “I'm Hopeful. I Have One More Journey”: What’s Next for Madie39:32 - Facing Criticism & “Surrogacy Opinions”41:02 - Agency vs. Independent Surrogacy: Madie's Preference  43:44 - The Emotions in the Delivery Room46:27 - The Importance of Stress Tests49:55 - Breastfeeding a Surrogate Baby50:26 - Madie's Advice & Encouragement for Other Surrogates53:55 - Madie Describes Her Surrogacy Journey in One Word54:53 - Outro#LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #surrogacymatch #embryotransfer #podcast