🔥 EPISODE OVERVIEWToo many project managers lose their voice trying to please the loudest critic in the room. In this episode, I will unpack how the “validation trap” quietly steals confidence, derails projects, and turns strong leaders into silent performers.Using real-world stories and eight powerful principles, I will explain how to lead with conviction instead of chasing applause, so you can deliver results without losing yourself.💼 1:1 COACHING If imposter syndrome is slowing you down or you're tired of leading from fear instead of confidence, my 1:1 coaching will help you communicate with authority, manage difficult stakeholders, and show up like a project manager who owns the room.👉 Apply here: https://pxl.to/edwardcokejr📘 WHAT YOU’LL LEARNHow the “validation trap” quietly weakens your leadershipWhy the loudest opinions usually come from the sidelinesThe difference between control and influence in project managementHow self-respect shapes your confidence and decision-makingWhy chasing visibility destroys long-term credibilityHow to use rejection as fuel for clarity instead of fearWhy people-pleasing leads to burnout and how to break the cycleHow to act with conviction without needing group approval⏱️ TIMESTAMPS / CHAPTERS00:00 – The Validation Trap: Where Great PMs Lose Their Voice00:29 – The On-Prem to Cloud Migration Story01:52 – The Turning Point: Managing Noise vs. Managing People02:56 – Leadership Lesson: The Loudest Opinions Risk the Least03:33 – Principle 1: The Sideline Critics (And How to Silence Them)05:00 – Principle 2: Influence Beats Control06:54 – Principle 3: You Can’t Outperform a Lack of Self-Respect08:21 – Principle 4: Visibility Isn’t Leadership09:33 – Principle 5: Rejection Is Feedback With Emotions10:49 – Principle 6: Stop Being the Hero in Every Room12:07 – Principle 7: Freedom Comes From Releasing Approval13:11 – Principle 8: You Don’t Need a Committee for Common Sense14:23 – Stop Chasing Validation. Start Leading With Conviction.15:35 – Final Message: Leaders Deliver Results, Not Applause💼 1:1 COACHING If you're ready to lead with confidence—not validation—apply for 1:1 coaching. You’ll learn how to influence with clarity, command stakeholder respect, and trust your voice at every stage of the project.👉 Apply here: https://pxl.to/edwardcokejr

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