"When Your Identity's the Problem—Smash It and Start Over" Papa's strummin' his busted six-string while dodgin' a pride parade and cacklin' at a TikTok life coach   What's good, boys? It's Papa, back on the mic for 4 Da Boys, slicin' through the identity nonsense like a barbell through a vegan's tofu scramble. I'm talkin' to you, my sons—my absolute legends out there, love y'all to death—about the claim that when your identity is the sin, like with gay and trans folks, it ain't just about what you're doin' wrong but who you're claimin' to be. These folks might be sweeter than a Cracker Barell honey biscuit, thinkin' they're livin' their "true self," and callin' us haters for not clappin' along to their free-spirit anthem. But the problem's the identity itself—yeah, actions too, but you get me.   The ideology's a slick con, sellin' 'em a rainbow-colored lie. Solution? Discipline knockin' it off and change, sons. So, grab a seat, keep your weights racked, and let Papa, the Johnny Cash Wannabe after a whiskey bender—break it down in five points, humor cranked to nineteen, lovin' on you fine folks but swingin' hard at the "be yourself" baloney with a grin wider than a motivational influencer's fake smile. Identity Is the Sin—It's Who You Are, Not Just What You Do Sons, I'm talkin' to you beautiful people out there—y'all are gold, but let's get real. Gay and trans identities ain't just about bedroom shenanigans or wardrobe swaps—they're sinful at the core, a big ol' "nope" to God's blueprint. These folks might be kind as all get-out, swearin' they're rockin' their authentic self, and cryin' "hater" when we don't join the parade. But ungodly warping of reality and license ain't just actions—it's claimin' an identity that flips off God's design. That "I am what I am" ideology? It's a shiny scam, slicker than a used car lot in a rainstorm.    Oh, you think "livin' your truth" gets you a halo? Nah, sons, God's not handin' out Oscars for best self-delusion. Truth's His, not yours. Point 2: Disciplined Self Control—Gut-Punchin' Your Soul Daily Repentance ain't no quick "my bad" and a wink—it's a daily brawl to ditch that anti-God identity for one stamped "approved." If you're rockin' a gay or trans label, you gotta toss it like a bad mixtape and rebuild around Christ—mind transformation, not TikTok affirmation.   Hit your knees, crack open the Bible, maybe fast till you're hangry—it's about sayin', "I'm not my feelings; I'm God's project." The ideology's screamin' "embrace your vibe"; repentance says, "God's vibe trumps your playlist." What, you gonna tell Jesus your "true self" outranks His script? Good luck sellin' that at the pearly gates, cowboy. Point 3: Change—Smash the Mirror, Rebuild the Man Change ain't just quittin' the pride march or burnin' the wig—it's shatterin' the whole "this is me" mindset. Transformation comes from shiftin' how you see yourself, not just what you do. You don't fake it; you fight it—daily choices like prayin' hard, findin' mentors who don't coddle, or servin' others to keep your ego smaller than a gym bro's cardio day. The ideology's whisperin' your identity's sacred, untouchable. Nope. You're God's rough draft, not a masterpiece.    Think you're "born this way" and done? God's got a wreckin' ball, and you're the demo site, not the interior designer.  Excuses, son.  Crap Point 4: Love the Folks, Torch the Ideology To you legends—y'all are the best, kind hearts who might feel trapped thinkin' your identity's your truth. We love you like a cold beer on a hot day, but that "live your truth" ideology's a scam, slipperier than a politician's handshake. You might be the nicest guy slingin' lattes, but if your identity's built on disillusion, it's like polishin' a turd—still ain't cake.   I got you—grab a coffee, get a hug—but we're sayin' straight: your "true self" ain't the goal; God's design is. The ideology callin' us haters? It's just dodgin' truth like a kid avoidin' chores.    Oh, we're haters 'cause we won't wave your flag? Nah, we love you enough to take your hand and journey with you back to God, not tossin' a glitter bomb at you. Point 5: Grind It Out—Practical Steps to Ditch the Broken Self How do you handle it when your identity's the sin? Disciplined repentance and change, sons, like this:  Daily Reset: Start with prayer and scripture to rewire your brain for God's truth, not your feels.  Solid Crew: Find brothers who'll smack you with truth, not pat your back. Action Over Vibes: Serve others, work hard, focus outward to kill that "me, myself, and I" nonsense. It's NEVER been about you, and it isn't now. Ditch the Noise: Ignore the internet screams to "be yourself"—that's been the problem all along. The ideology says your identity's a sacred cow; God says it's clay He's still moldin'. Grind it out, and peace and purpose roll in without chasin' rainbows.  Think you're a finished statue? God's got His chisel, and He ain't checkin' your Instagram for inspo. Alright, my beautiful sons—you're the real deal, but that "live your truth" ideology's a lie slicker than a televangelist's hair. When your identity's the anvil around your nech—like gay or trans—it ain't just actions you gotta control; it's who you're claimin' to be. Disciplined repentance and change mean tossin' that label, prayin' hard, surroundin' yourself with truth-tellers, and livin' for God's design, not your feelings.   Love you, so we're torchin' the "authentic self" baloney. 'Cause when I'm in Heaven I want you right there by my side.  I love your Souls more than your feelings.  Be God's man, and the real stuff—peace, purpose—floods in like a bar at happy hour. Keep your heart strong, your mind sharper, and your ego lighter than a vegan's bench press. This is 4 Da Boys, and I'm out.   Music by Pufino

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