In this episode, Doug Beitz welcomes Bob Wischer, a Relationship Engineer, founder of Men Becoming Better Men coaching, and host of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast. Bob shares his powerful journey from the depths of despair following a painful divorce to finding joy, meaning, and connection in his life. He talks about how he systematically re-engineered his life, transformed his mindset, and embraced personal responsibility to create lasting change. Key Discussion Points: Bob's Journey to Self-Discovery: Bob's life was upended by a painful divorce that nearly destroyed his relationship with his children. His dedication to self-reflection, accountability, and coaching led him to transform his mindset and re-engineer his life. Now, happily remarried with four children, Bob's story serves as a beacon of hope for men feeling lost and disconnected. Intuition and Spiritual Guidance: Bob shares his interpretation of intuition, which he sees as the Holy Spirit guiding his life. He discusses how his faith in Christ and the Holy Spirit has been a constant, even before he consciously accepted it. The Importance of Integrity in Men's Lives: Integrity is crucial for personal growth and maintaining healthy relationships. Bob emphasizes the importance of being honest with oneself and others, sharing examples from his own life where a lack of integrity led to issues. He highlights how the lack of integrity in men can lead to failed relationships and resentment from their partners. Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Stages: Bob recounts the stages of emotions he experienced before, during, and after his divorce. Before the divorce: Bob struggled with depression for years, feeling overwhelmed by unresolved childhood wounds and marital issues. During the divorce: The process was highly challenging, exacerbated by his ex-wife's reaction to his new relationship, leading to a fierce battle over custody and assets. After the divorce: Bob's journey of recovery took years, during which he gradually resolved his unresolved issues and found peace and fulfillment. Coaching and Helping Men Find Purpose: Bob discusses how he now dedicates his life to helping other men through coaching, focusing on rediscovering purpose, enhancing relationships, and embracing their authentic selves. He talks about the role of connection, integrity, and purpose in men's lives, and how these elements are crucial for lasting personal transformation. http://www.menbecomingbettermen.com https://www.instagram.com/therelationshipengineer https://www.tiktok.com/@therelationshipengineer [email protected] dougbeitz.com facebook.com/dougbeitz instagram.com/dougbeitz  

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