Join Ailey Jolie and Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author, on this episode of In This Body. The conversation explores how systemic oppression—particularly patriarchy—shapes our relationships with gender, sexuality, and embodiment. Dr. Balestrieri unpacks the misconceptions around patriarchy, the impact of gender essentialism, and how masculinity can become a prison, disconnecting men from their emotional world. Ailey and Dr. Balestrieri discuss how trauma influences sexuality, why pleasure is a form of power, and the barriers that prevent individuals from viewing sex as a practice of play rather than a currency of worth. The episode also highlights the importance of reclaiming agency within cultural narratives that shape our desires, bodies, and relationships. We hope you enjoy the episode.In this episode:00:00 Introduction to Embodiment and Connection01:00 Exploring Trauma, Sexuality, and Relational Healing06:18 The Impact of Patriarchy on Relationships11:04 The Suppression of Emotions in Men18:44 Gender-Based Violence and Masculinity23:06 Sexuality as a Playground for Healing26:27 Unlearning Shame and Embracing Play30:16 The Madonna-Whore Complex and Its Impact36:06 Insights from What Happened to My Sex Life?41:30 Sexuality as Currency and PowerYou can read the show transcript here.To find out more about Kate:Find: WebsiteFollow: InstagramExplore: Free ResourcesExperience: What Happened to my Sex life?Learn more about Ailey Jolie:Find: WebsiteFollow: InstagramExplore: SubstackExperience: Insight TimerEmail: [email protected] follow along with the In This Body podcast:Follow: InstagramFind: WebsiteEmail: [email protected]

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