Michael Diamond sits down with Tom Sheltad, founder of Inner Guide Expeditions and 30-year veteran of youth development work, to explore the profound challenges facing today's generation. Tom shares insights from 15 years of leading transformational wilderness expeditions, revealing how disconnection from self and community has become the core struggle for modern youth. They dive deep into the magic of the 72-hour digital detox, the PLUMBER framework for connecting with teens, and why lighthouse parenting beats helicopter parenting every time. Tom explains how wilderness accountability creates unshakeable confidence, why parents who save their kids from struggle actually harm them, and how intentional rites of passage can change the trajectory of a young person's life. This episode is essential listening for any parent, mentor, or adult who cares about raising empowered, connected, and purposeful young men and women. From practical parenting tools to the neuroscience of vulnerability, this conversation offers a roadmap for bridging the gap between generations and helping youth discover who they truly are.Chapters:(00:00:00) - Opening: The Power of Wilderness and Accountability(00:01:00) - Community Support Through Challenges(00:02:00) - Working with Youth: 30 Years of Experience and Rites of Passage(00:03:00) - The Core Question: "Am I Okay?" and the Struggle with Enoughness(00:06:00) - The 72-Hour Digital Detox: Why It's Magic(00:10:00) - Disconnection After COVID: How Youth Lost Connection Skills(00:12:00) - Creating Safety: The Four Guidelines of Circle(00:16:00) - Mirror Neurons and the Power of Witnessed Vulnerability(00:19:00) - Why Wilderness? Accountability, Wonder, and Building Confidence(00:23:00) - Overcoming Mental Resistance: The Ice Bath Principle(00:25:00) - The PLUMBER Framework: Connecting with Teens (Part 1)(00:30:00) - PLUMBER Framework Continued: Listen, Meet, and Bring Inquiry(00:36:00) - Empower: Don't Save Kids from Learning Experiences(00:42:00) - Lighthouse Parenting vs Helicopter Parenting(00:45:00) - Integration: Supporting Youth After Expeditions(00:49:00) - Summer Adventures and Custom Family Expeditions(00:54:00) - Closing: Intentional Parenting and Future CollaborationsLinks And Resources:WebsiteTom Shelstad on

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