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Episode Synopsis
What happens when two strong-willed “Alpha” personalities fall in love and try to do life together without (completely) driving each other bonkers?Jess gets real about the sparks that fly, not just the romantic kind, but the occasional post-vacation tension that pops up when the bags are unpacked, but the emotions… not so much. Jay joins her and they explore big revelations, like how moments of friction can lead to a deeper connection if you're brave enough to face them.If you've ever found yourself arguing over who left the hotel light on or questioning why your dream trip ended in a weird silence, this one’s for you. Jess and Jay remind us that love isn’t about being perfect; it’s about showing up, staying curious, and doing the work together.Chapters00:00 - Intro04:00 - Alpha Dynamics in Marriage12:05 - Understanding Triggers and Emotional Responses28:22 - Communication in Relationships40:26 - Unexpected Restaurant Drama48:03 - Marital Clarity and ConnectionAbout JessJess is a storyteller and seeker of meaningful connections in Texas by way of Baton Rouge, LA. Geaux Tigers! With a passion for humor and authenticity, she explores life’s complexities and embraces each experience with wild grace. You can find Jess rearranging her room for the third time this month, designing the perfect outfit for an upcoming rodeo, or hugging a friend for way too long! She has been married to her Texas farmer for eight years, and the two have blended a beautiful crew of five children, ages 12-19. You can hear all about their marriage and world over at their joint podcast, Moving On Again. Together, the duo has set out to get ALL of the goodie from this life they have graciously been given! Deeper connections with themselves and others, an even stronger family, a bulletproof marriage, and a life you have to recover from in the end! Giddy up!
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