Sandwich Generation Series: Lowering the Barrier to Connections and Caretaking

24/01/2025 51 min Episodio 6
Sandwich Generation Series: Lowering the Barrier to Connections and Caretaking

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Sandwich Generation Series Lowering the Barrier to Connections and Caretaking⚠️ Content Warning: This episode discusses grief, loss, and mentions suicide. If you're struggling, text, call, chat 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (24/7).In this episode, Nick and Moraya explore loneliness in the sandwich generation and ways to build deeper connections while caregiving. They respond to a listener's letter about friendship and sibling dynamics, discuss how to lower barriers to connection, and share personal stories about grief and family values. 🥘 Main Course Topics:Responding to a listener navigating caretaker lonelinessBuilding deeper intimacy in friendships Personal stories of grief, including Moraya's memories with her grandparents Toshi & Pete Seeger and Newport Folk Festival - particularly timely as a drop of their legacy is highlighted in Edward Norton's Oscar-nominated performance in "A Complete Unknown" about Bob Dylan's early years played by Timothée Chalamet.Discussion of "The Rabbit Listened" by Cori Doerrfeld🫕 Memorable Quotes:"Why do we wait until after someone's gone to ask the questions that matter? What if we found the courage to ask them now?" - Moraya"How can we process everything we're carrying if we're carrying it alone?" - Nick"Your friend reaching out with 'How are you?' - that's an invitation to connect." - Moraya📑HomeEc Key Terms:Sandwich Generation: Caring for both aging parents and children under 18Openface Sandwich Generation: Adult children caregiving their parents without kidsClub Sandwich Generation: Multiple generations of caregiving at once, including in the same generationEmotional Pursuer (EFT): A partner who responds to relationship stress by moving toward the other to meet attachment needsEmotional Withdrawer (EFT): A partner who responds to relationship stress by moving away to protect attachment needs.Genogram: A visual tool that expands on a family tree to map relationships, patterns, and dynamics across generations, revealing inherited behaviors and attitudes about topics like money and gender roles.📖Chapter Guide00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage04:07 The Sandwich Generation: Definitions and Experiences08:10 Understanding Genograms and Family Systems17:08 Listener Letter: Seeking Support and Connection30:53 Navigating Elder Care Decisions42:56 Breaking Barriers in Difficult Conversations48:29 Emotional Support and Connection loop📱 Join Our Kitchen Table ConversationsInstagram/TikTok: @[email protected]@personawealth.comWant more wellness recipes? Sign up for our monthly newsletter on the HomeEcPodcast.com website.⚠️ Disclaimer: The advice in this show are a guide and sharing personal stories are for entertainment. Please speak directly with a professional for personalized guidance. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.