Today, we're talking about doing it for them, and why we shouldn't. One of the greatest gifts that you can give entrepreneurs is not specific tactics or even strategies. These things work for a while and tend to fade out with time or change. The great thing that you can give entrepreneurs in a mentorship program is skills. There are really four stages to skill development. First there's the learning phase. I do it and you watch, and we cover this in two brain inside our curriculum. They're going through the course. Here's how to do it, and they're basically watching one of us do it. Second phase is, we do it together. And this is what the mentorship calls are for. We go through the work and we get it done on the call. The third phase is, you do it and I watch. And this is really where growth phase, or higher levels of mentorship, come in. We are giving them homework and checking to make sure that they've done it, and hopefully taking a peek to make sure that they've done it well. And fourth, you do it and I support you and watch you train others. So the four phases of skill development are, I do it and you watch like a course. Second, we do it together. Third, you do, I watch, and fourth, you do, I support and you train others. This, teaching it to other people, as you found, as a mentor, often helps the skill really become honed, because when we're mentoring other people to do it, we get a more objective perspective on what we're doing ourselves. That said, when we're teaching people to do skill acquisition, there are a few things that you do to sabotage them. You care so much about all of your clients, that you tend to do things for them, instead of giving them the power and the tools to learn how to do it themselves. And when you do it for them, they don't learn the skill. So instead of posting bright spots where you tag your clients and say, I'm so proud of them for doing this, text a client and say, post your bright spots, or text a client and say, I'm proud of you for this. Share that as your bright spot, don't email their accountant or their bookkeeper or their lawyer or their software company. Don't take a call to learn something that you then turn around and try and teach them. Show them how to book the call, show them how to write the email, show them how to query their bookkeeper and ask for the P and L help them do it. I'd never say that our clients are like our kids, but all of you parents know that cutting your kids steak when they're a teenager is not preparing them for life. You have to give gym owners skills, and that means reps, that means habits, that means letting them fail and then helping them get back on the horse and do it the right way instead of driving the cart for them. Thank you for helping other entrepreneurs.

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