What if the goals you’re chasing aren’t really yours?Or have you ever felt like you’re pushing toward something you’re “supposed” to want—even if it doesn’t really light you up?Until you stop and look around and ask yourself—wait… is this really me?If this feels familiar, this week’s episode might really hit home.This week on the podcast, I’m diving into something I see so often (in myself and my clients): the difference between our true self and our pseudo-self.Our pseudo-self can be very convincing. It’s shaped by childhood conditioning, social expectations, family pressures, and the rewards we’ve learned to crave. Sometimes it pushes us toward paths that look right on paper—but leave us feeling stuck, restless, or unfulfilled.Ask yourself:Are you working toward something you’re “supposed” to want—even if it doesn’t excite you?Do you ever feel like you're checking boxes for other people instead of yourself?Is there something you keep postponing, and you’re not even sure why?Is the life that would be created out of this action one that is in alignment with my values and my desires and my higher self? - Dr. Kavetha SunIn this episode, I share:How to recognize when what you “want” isn’t coming from your true selfThe personal story of my own fork-in-the-road moment (and what happened when I finally listened to my authentic self)Questions to ask yourself if you’re facing a big decision right nowWhy resisting your pseudo-self can feel scary—and why it’s worth itIf you’ve been procrastinating on something you say you want… it might not be about laziness. It could be your truest self hitting the brakes.Tune in to uncover whether the path you’re on truly belongs to you—and start choosing what really lights you up.Oh—and if you have something you're navigating and would love my take on it...  🗣️ You can submit a question or situation for a future episode right here (totally anonymous!):  👉Submit your questionP.S. Love the podcast? Reviews help us spread these life-changing tools far and wide. If you leave a 5-star review and submit a screenshot here, I’ll send you my Rapid Relationship Repair mini-course—a short but powerful set of tools to reduce conflict and improve connection immediately.FREE tools:Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-NewsletterNeed more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

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