The Real Reason You Procrastinate & Self-Sabotage Your Goals

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Is chronic procrastination, perfectionism, or a crippling sense of imposter syndrome stalling your business momentum? You're not alone, and it's not just a matter of willpower. Dr. Albert Bramante (Talent Agent, Psychology Professor, & Author of 'Rise Above the Script') joins Harmonious at Lunch to dissect the real psychological roots of self-sabotage that hold entrepreneurs back.This episode offers a practical framework to move from inaction to execution. Dr. Bramante reveals why procrastination is often a symptom of a much deeper issue, why traditional to-do lists fail, and the actionable system he used to finally write his book. Discover how to break monumental goals into manageable milestones, why you must stop self-editing in the moment, and why “someday” is the most dangerous word for any business owner.In This Episode:[00:00] - Is Self-Doubt Holding Your Business Back?[01:38] - Dr. Bramante's Lifelong Struggle with Imposter Syndrome[03:45] - The Deeper Psychology of Procrastination as a Trauma Response[05:25] - How Perfectionism & Self-Doubt Almost Stopped Him From Writing His Book[07:10] - A Simple Technique to Defeat Perfectionism: Write First, Edit Later[09:28] - The Power of Milestones vs. The Failure of To-Do Lists[11:05] - Why You're Not Lacking Time, You're Lacking Action[11:50] - "Someday is Not a Day on the Calendar": Taking Action Today[12:45] - The SMART Goal Framework for Big Projects[14:48] - Why You Must Adapt Systems to Fit Your Own Style[16:40] - How to Connect with Dr. Albert BramanteLike this video, Comment with your thoughts, and Subscribe to Harmonious at Lunch!Download the full podcast here:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/harmonious-at-lunch/id1722490295Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CIVZu21nyAbhHuO0nskRq?si=3d1f729fa9a743bdiHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-harmonious-at-lunch-163898157/Pandora: https://pandora.app.link/uo2Aj4gmSTbAmazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/cb240cab-0e14-4923-8c75-03fe1b21e3ef/harmonious-at-lunchFor strategies to achieve greater clarity in yourself and your employees, visit the HumanOp Website: https://humanop.com/Learn more from Dr. Albert Bramante and get your copy of his book, 'Rise Above the Script': Visit his website for performance strategies and resources: https://www.albertbramante.com/Connect with Dr. Albert Bramante:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/albertbramanteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralbramanteFollow Harmonious at Lunch:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/humanoptechnologies/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HumanOpTechLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/humanop-technologies-inc/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humanoptech#ImposterSyndrome #Procrastination #EntrepreneurMindset #SelfSabotage #BusinessGrowthiHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-harmonious-at-lunch-163898157/ Pandora: https://pandora.app.link/uo2Aj4gmSTb Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/cb240cab-0e14-4923-8c75-03fe1b21e3ef/harmonious-at-lunchFor strategies to achieve greater clarity in yourself and your employees, visit the HumanOp Website: https://humanop.com/Learn more from Dr. Albert Bramante and get your copy of his book, 'Rise Above the Script': Visit his website for performance strategies and resources: https://www.albertbramante.com/Connect with Dr. Albert Bramante: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/albertbramante Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralbramanteFollow Harmonious at Lunch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/humanoptechnologies/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HumanOpTech LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/humanop-technologies-inc/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humanoptech#ImposterSyndrome #Procrastination #EntrepreneurMindset #SelfSabotage #BusinessGrowthSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/harmonious-at-lunch/exclusive-content

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