"If we don't initiate the boys, they're gonna burn the village down just to feel the heat."

We did it again - this time even bigger and live in person: Vince 'Matoska' Chafin is back with us at "going out looking in" for a special episode and our first ever live podcast event in Potsdam! This day was incredibly special for me and everyone involved and I can't thank you enough for showing up the way you all did. After a communal meditation, some nourishing conscious vegan soul food and two heart opening chants, we dove deep into this very intense and intimate conversation. As usual with Vince, there's just nothing this man can't talk and share wisdom about. Truly inspiring. Due to some personal changes, I'm unable to predict when we'll host the next live podcast recording but we'll do this again - I promise! Please see the timecodes below to navigate this conversation. Thank you for listening and being with us. 🤍

⏱️ TIMECODES:
00:00 Intro 06:55 START INTERVIEW 10:02 Opening the space 11:52 What's alive within? 14:38 Live exercise: Letting go 25:58 What we're here for / What we're not here for29:23 Life is going to knock us down 34:27 What do to when life punches us? 43:30 Why and how to get integrated beings: Moving from ego to service 46:55 How to turn things around and overcome adversity 53:58 Relationship between intention and impact 59:58 Random acts of kindness 01:08:54 What we put out is what we get back01:11:50 Generational trauma and how to resolve it 01:14:40 Life is like driving a bus 01:17:19 German trauma 01:23:47 Guilt and shame don't serve anyone 01:30:30 Find a way to love your ancestors 01:34:52 Creating an altar for your ancestors01:44:30 START Q&A01:44:54 How does ancestral trauma manifest in young men? 01:56:48 When is a good time for men to be initiated? 02:00:27 How can women support the initiation of men? 02:08:38 How does a healthy relationship look and feel like? How do we step into healthy relationships? 02:14:57 How to be a good facilitator/space holder? 02:23:44 On the importance of affirmations in relationships 02:29:35 The fears and needs of women & men02:37:36 The balance between the masculine and the feminine 02:48:27 Why are we cheating / get cheated on? 03:03:50 Expression of gratitude for Vince 03:04:40 How much time do I give my partner to commit and fully open up to me? 03:19:20 Thank you and Outro

👉 We explored a broad variety of topics such as:
- Navigating troublesome times
- How to find purpose and meaning in life
- Honoring our ancestry and healing ancestral trauma
- Peter Pan is dead: Growing up and owning your shit
- Transitioning from Princesses to Queens and Princes to Kings
- The relationship between Intention and impact
- How to cultivate a healthy, nourishing and balanced romantic relationship
- Effective communication in partnership
- Masculine & Feminie Polarity

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