162. F*ck Feedback: The Truth About Constructive Criticism

20/11/2025 12 min Episodio 162

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We’ve all heard it: ‘Feedback is a gift.’ But let’s be honest — not every gift is worth unwrapping. Some so-called ‘constructive feedback’ is actually projection, passive-aggressive commentary, or superiority theater dressed up as advice.In this episode of Goddess of Technology, we explore The Rise and Fall of Constructive Feedback — or, why constructive feedback is overrated. I’ll break down five situations where feedback isn’t constructive at all — from unsolicited advice given by people who don’t live your path, to passive-aggressive ‘growth’ comments, to the excuse of being ‘direct and honest’ without empathy.You’ll hear why not all feedback deserves space in your growth story, and how to separate what sharpens you from what only shrinks you.Because here’s the truth: feedback can empower, but only when it’s grounded in respect, equality, and context. Anything else? Trash it.✨ And now, Goddess, I’m inviting you: be honest with me. What’s the feedback you once received that was framed as ‘constructive’ — but deep down you thought to yourself, please, just shut up? Share it with me.