SummaryIn this episode of the Gird Up podcast, host Charlie Ungemach interviews Jacob Kieselhorst, a recent seminary graduate and new pastor. They delve into the complex topic of toxic masculinity, exploring its definitions, societal implications, and the biblical perspective on masculinity. Jacob shares insights from his thesis on the subject, discussing the historical evolution of gender roles and the impact of modern society on men's behavior. The conversation emphasizes the importance of active fatherhood and the need for dialogue in addressing the challenges faced by men and women today. In this conversation, Jacob K and Charlie Ungemach explore the profound impact of fatherhood on identity, the importance of listening to understand others' experiences, and the role of scripture in defining masculinity. They emphasize the necessity of knowing Christ personally and presenting the unconditional love of God to those who have experienced negative father figures. The discussion also delves into various perspectives on masculinity found in literature, highlighting the need for a balanced understanding of manhood informed by Christian teachings.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Gird Up Podcast05:59 Exploring Toxic Masculinity: The Thesis Behind the Discussion12:09 Defining Toxic Masculinity: Perspectives and Challenges21:13 The Other Side: Embracing Traditional Masculinity30:43 Masculinity: The Struggle Between Hyper-Masculinity and Vulnerability37:06 Historical Context: The Evolution of Gender Roles42:48 The Role of Pornography in Modern Relationships47:59 The Importance of Fathers in the Home50:05 The Cycle of Emotional Wounds52:51 Understanding the Roots of Anger56:50 The Role of Scripture in Defining Masculinity01:01:33 The Difference Between Kindness and Niceness01:06:10 Knowing Christ: A Personal Relationship01:11:33 The Beauty of God's Love Amidst Pain01:12:16 The Prodigal Son: A Father's Love01:13:45 God the Father: A Different Kind of Love01:14:26 Forgiveness and Redemption for Fathers01:14:56 Living Out the Christian Example01:16:23 The Impact of Living Faithfully01:17:19 Listening and Engaging in Conversations01:17:57 Sharing Personal Testimonies01:18:41 Evaluating Christian Literature01:20:40 Understanding Negative Perceptions of Christianity01:22:22 The Importance of Positive Male Figures01:24:29 The Role of Mentorship in Healing01:25:43 The Power of Presence in Relationships01:27:39 Restoring Order Through Godly Leadership01:29:05 The Need for Proper Masculine Role Models01:30:33 Presenting Unconditional Love in Christ01:31:16 Navigating Masculinity in Christian Literature01:33:21 The Importance of Understanding Different PerspectivesJacob's Links:https://www.menshealth.com/trending-news/a60258262/crossroads-church-man-camp/https://pastor.trinity-pres.nethttp://essays.wls.edu:8080/handle/123456789/7676Gird Up Links:https://youtube.com/@girdupministries4911?si=tbCa0SOiluVl8UFxhttps://www.instagram.com/girdup_be_a_man/https://www.girdupministries.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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