When both my cars broke down at the same time, my nervous system wanted to catastrophize—"This is terrible! Everything's falling apart!  I can even make 'bad' things a reflection on how I've somehow failed!! Sound familiar?In this episode, I'm getting vulnerable about my own tendency toward hypervigilance and being able to see patterns has been an incredible gift and also a curse that can drain my vitality.You'll discover:Why your "gift" for seeing patterns might be keeping you exhaustedThe difference between healthy awareness and nervous system hypervigilanceHow catastrophizing creates the biochemical stress response that depletes youTwo powerful questions to ask when you're spinning outPractical tools to orient yourself to safety in the present momentIf you're exhausted despite doing "all the right things," this episode will help you understand how your nervous system—not your circumstances—might be the real issue.To find out if you're a match for The Holding Personality and to see if your personality type may possibly secretly be draining your energy take this 5 minute quiz at http://portal.kerrymagnus.net/quiz This may just be the missing piece you're looking for. And remember...sharing is caring - please share with all those who could benefit from this podcast.

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