Listen "I'm Happy for You… Kinda: When Comparison Steals Your Peace"
Episode Synopsis
Why her success triggered me — and what I did about it. We're getting honest about the sneaky ways comparison shows up—when someone else's glow dims your vibe. From jealousy to self-judgment to spiritual guilt, this episode explores how to shift from despair to peace using real-life stories, spiritual tools, and self-forgiveness. Have you ever secretly felt small in someone else's glow? Maybe you've thought: "It should've been me." Or felt a flicker of relief when someone else hit a bump in the road. Yep. Us too. In this raw and revealing episode, the Lemonettes share real-life moments of "compare and despair" — from jealousy in a class, to resentment in recovery, to a sneaky flash of schadenfreude at a friend's misfortune. We talk about: What comparison really reveals about our inner world Why it hurts so much (and how fast it can spiral) The power of turning it over to Spirit Forgiveness, emotional validation, and practical spiritual tools How to stop judging your insides by someone else's outsides Whether you're doing A Course in Miracles or just trying to keep your heart open in a world of curated highlight reels, this conversation is a balm. 🛠️ Spiritual tools we share in this episode: The "Sweetheart Practice" for emotional healing Forgiveness as a path to peace (especially with yourself) ACIM Lesson 309: "Projection is a mirror, not a fact" Mindset reframes for jealousy, self-criticism, and fear of not being enough How to genuinely bless what others have — and claim it for yourself 💛 Favorite quote: "Despair is just a signal that I'm out of alignment with Love."
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