Talk 72: Healthy Love, Healthy Boundaries

25/11/2025 35 min
Talk 72: Healthy Love, Healthy Boundaries

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Send us a textHave you ever wondered if setting a boundary makes you a bad Christian, a selfish friend, or a dishonoring daughter or son? For years I wrestled with those questions and carried a lot of anxiety because I did not understand healthy, biblical boundaries.In Talk 72: Healthy Love, Healthy Boundaries, I share a live teaching from my local church where we unpack what Scripture really says about burdens, responsibility, and love. We look at Galatians 6, explore the difference between helping someone carry a heavy crisis and carrying their everyday backpack of responsibility, and talk about why God honoring limits are actually an expression of love, not a rejection of it.Inside this episode you will hear:A short recap of Talk 71, Facing Conflict God's Way, and why conflict has to be handled in a holy way firstReal life examples of manipulation, spiritual pressure, and guilt that can leave you feeling trappedA simple, biblical framework for what you are responsible for and what you are notQuestions to ask yourself when you are not sure if it is time to set a boundarySample boundary statements you can adapt for your own relationshipsA powerful story of how God confirmed a very painful boundary through a prophetic word at just the right timeIf you are feeling drained, resentful, confused, or anxious around a relationship, this conversation is for you. My prayer is that God uses it to help you release what he never asked you to carry and to love others more wisely, with truth, limits, and peace.If you have not listened to Talk 71 yet, Facing Conflict God's Way, I recommend starting there and then coming back to this episode, since the two messages really belong together.Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here Mental Health Coaching info and book here. Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? Connect with Christy and on Instagram: @christymboulwareConnect with Fearless Unite and on Instagram: @fearlessunite Send us your feedback, questions, encouragement and anxiety tip ideas: [email protected]