Are avoidants actually avoidant… or are they reflecting something deeper back to you - especially if you have anxious attachment?.In today's episode of the F*CK TRAUMA Podcast, I’m breaking down one of the most perspective-shifting teachings you will ever learn about relationships:Why avoidants show up the way they do, and how the Law of Assumption can transform the dynamic completely..Not by chasing.Not by fixing.Not by abandoning yourself..But by understanding self-concept, your nervous system, and the inner story that avoidants mirror back to you..Inside this episode, you’ll learn:✨ Why anxious attachers are drawn to avoidants✨ What the “abandonment mirror” actually is✨ How your inner assumptions create avoidant patterns✨ Why avoidant behaviour feels so familiar to your body✨ How changing your identity changes how THEY show up✨ How to shift the story of them and the story of you✨ Embodiment practices to step into secure, chosen energy.This is the deeper layer behind everything I teach:You are not powerless in your relationships, and avoidants are not “fixed this way.”They reflect your inner world and when you shift, they do too..If you haven’t listened to these episodes yet, start here:They’ll give you the perfect foundation for today’s teaching:🔹 You Can't Change Them Until You Change You (Self-concept & Law of Assumption)🔹 Transform Your Relationships with the Law of Assumption.Want to go deeper?Free Masterclass: ⁠Becoming Secure You⁠Masterclass: ⁠Stop Attracting Avoidants⁠Masterclass: ⁠Stop Them Pulling Away⁠Signature Program: ⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠.Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

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