In this tender and insightful episode, Patria is joined by her husband, Jerry, for an honest conversation about what it’s like to be two Enneagram Nines in relationship. Married for over 30 years, they reflect on the joys and challenges of navigating life together as a “double nine couple.” From conflict avoidance to finding peace in their bodies, Jerry and Patria open up about how their unique differences shape their relationship — and how those patterns might resonate with your own story.Whether you’re a Nine yourself, love a Nine, or simply want to better understand relational dynamics through the lens of the Enneagram, this episode offers wisdom, laughter, and practical encouragement.Key ThemesConflict & Avoidance: Why Nines often struggle with voicing preferences, avoiding tension, or merging with others — and how Jer and Patria have learned to face those challenges together.Body & Intuition: How early family dynamics shaped Jer’s awareness of his body and Patria’s connection to her intuition, and the ways both contribute to peace.Speaking Up: The risks and rewards of sharing personal preferences — and why using our words can deepen intimacy and connection.Being Seen: Tender stories of moments when each felt celebrated and truly seen by the other.Conflict Transformation: How their understanding of anger shifted from something to avoid into a pathway to honesty and growth.Aliveness & Belonging: What helps them feel most alive, from adventure to belonging, and how showing up creates connection.Gentle PracticeTake a slow breath and notice your body.Where do you feel tension?Where do you feel peace or joy?Ask yourself: What is one thing I want today, just for me?Don’t fix, don’t analyze — simply listen.Reflection QuestionsHow do you experience the difference between peace and avoidance in your own life?In what ways do you hold back your preferences — and what happens when you speak them?When have you felt most seen or celebrated by someone you love?How does your family of origin shape the way you experience conflict and connection?Resources & LinksLearn more at thebrokenandbeautiful.comConnect with Patria through the website’s contact pageShare this episode with someone who loves a Nine or needs encouragement on their journeyClosing Reminder: You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re right on time.Ad Affiliate: Reclaiming HER Resilence with Robrenna ParkerIf this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding.Connect With PatriaFacebookInstagramThe Broken & Beautiful WebsiteCredits:Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. SandersMusic Promoted by EnvatoEchoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

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