Thinking MATURITY and SPIRITUAL growth will suddenly 'HAPPEN' to your children is like EXPECTING an acorn to SUDDENLY become an OAK TREE. Time, DEVELOPMENT and nurture are REQUIRED to produce an oak tree-the  SAME GOES  for RAISING CHILDREN . And the EARLIER you start the BETTER your  results will be. 'lt is good for a man to BEAR the yoke while he is YOUNG.' Otherwise the passage of TIME will just PRODUCE unprepared CHILDREN with HABITS and ATTITUDES that are hard to SHAKE later on when life requires them to take on RESPONSIBILITY . In the 'yoke' metaphor the untrained ox learns by being YOKED to the well-trained one, sharing the workload and following its example. Parents tend to make two mistakes with their children.
FIRST, THEY OVER-FUNCTION. They do everything for THEM, then blame the child for being LAZY.
SECOND, THEY UNDER-FUNCTION. They DEMAND too much of the CHILD, frustrating them and making them feel INCOMPETENT . The key to building CHARACTER and CONFIDENCE is not to do it for them but WITH them, teaching them RESPONSIBILITY . The YOKE PRINCIPLE offers two great advantages:
a) IT PROVIDES THE ROLE-MODEL  ADVANTAGE.  'Apprentice' your CHILDREN by patiently, lovingly using on-the-job TRAINING to DEMONSTRATE and IMPART skills and COMPETENCE. They will APPRECIATE you when the TOOLS you provide them LEAD to a LIFETIME of natural and spiritual success;
b) IT PROVIDES THE RELATIONSHIP  ADVANTAGE . Those TRAINING TIMES and SHARED work are great OPPORTUNITIES to develop and DEEPEN an ENDURING and PRECIOUS BOND with your children.
God's Servant 
Rev Alfred Acheampong.
Prayer Point: Heavenly Father, help me to train my children in the way that they should go so when they grow they will not depart from it. Amen
Anchor Scripture: 'IT IS GOOD FOR A MAN TO BEAR THE YOKE WHILE HE IS YOUNG.' (Lamentations 3:27 NIV) 
Stay Blessed!

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