The Chokehold Of Hyper Independence

22/02/2023 1h 27min Temporada 2 Episodio 2

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Episode Synopsis

Hello to our favourite Kollectiv.
We know that second Sundays are dedicated to CIB episodes and as the saying goes "better late than never", serves relevance in this case as we went live a few days late than expected. In the same breath, we appreciate the kollectiv patience from our CIB family and would like to believe this episode was worth the wait.  We've broken down the episode coverage for your spirit to resonate and for audio enjoyment.
28:45 - Formal housekeeping, while taking the time to appreciate our audience connecting from all around the world plus we cover an extract from the book "A fire like you" by Upile Chisala as our words/quote of the day. We jumped straight right into the episode's topic by defining  Hyper Independence from trusted sources and unearthing even more from a soul-led perspective the cracks of this infamous chokehold. 
28:49 - 56:84 - Signs of Hyper independence in our daily lives and the defensiveness we may be facing in not recognizing this sense of life as a trauma response and how trauma can birth hyper-independence. Another look is the realities of how "HI" can move from being fulfilling in terms of reaching our accomplishment to how its shifts to a negative effect and affect your overall overview in relationships, self-worth, and navigation of living in community with others. 
56:85 - 01:27:17 How to navigate and unlearn hyper-independence and form healthy and fulfilling dependence patterns in your every day while honoring the power that comes with maintaining a sense of independence for yourself and those around you.