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Listen "When Your Body Finally Says No: Chronic Stress, Hormones, and Redefining Success in Midlife with Lisa Corduff"
Episode Synopsis
Your body has been trying to tell you something for a while now. The persistent low mood you keep attributing to stress. The exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix. The feeling that no matter how well you take care of yourself, you're still running on fumes. What if it's not willpower you're missing? What if your body is finally saying no to a version of success that's costing you everything?
Lisa Corduff's Story
Lisa Corduff built a million-dollar business while her life was falling apart behind the scenes. Her husband Nick was struggling with addiction and mental health. She was solo parenting three young kids. And her business became the one place that felt purposeful when everything else was chaos.
She was creating non-stop. Documenting everything. Showing up in all the places because that's what successful entrepreneurs do, right? The frantic energy matched what was happening in her real life. And then Nick died in 2019. Lisa was 40 years old with three kids aged 5, 7, and 8, and she kept going because that's what you do when you're the only parent and three kids are depending on you.
But here's what nobody tells you about chronic stress: your body keeps the score. For years, Lisa would wake up every morning with her nervous system spiking, wondering "what's today going to bring?" She couldn't get back to sleep. Her system was wired for threat. And even after the acute crisis passed, her body remembered.
This year, everything shifted. At 45, Lisa finally got answers she didn't know she needed - ADHD and autism diagnoses that suddenly made her entire life make sense. She discovered her estrogen levels were tanked despite doing everything "right" - morning walks, good food, sleep hygiene, all of it. She realized that what she'd been calling stress was actually perimenopause masked by legitimate life chaos.
And she had to make a choice: keep running the frantic version of success she'd built, or completely redefine what success means when you're no longer willing to sacrifice your nervous system, your presence with your teenage kids, or your actual life for revenue targets.
In this raw, vulnerable conversation, Lisa reveals:
Why she went completely quiet this year after being one of the most visible entrepreneurs online for over a decade
The moment she realized her persistent low mood wasn't just grief or stress - it was disappearing estrogen
What getting diagnosed with ADHD and autism in her 40s taught her about the hustle she'd been celebrated for
How chronic stress from years of managing addiction, solo parenting, and business building dysregulated her nervous system (and why it didn't matter how well she took care of herself)
The shift from million-dollar years to redefining success around presence with her teenage kids
Why she had to let go of the "prove yourself through content" model and become what she calls a "lighthouse voice"
What it's really like to advocate for your own health when doctors dismiss perimenopausal women as overreacting to social media trends
How neurodivergence (ADHD + autism) shows up differently in high-achieving women who've learned to mask
The hidden cost of being everyone's rock while quietly crumbling inside
Why grief and addiction are the "unsexy topics" we need to talk about more
What happens when you finally honor your needs instead of overriding them with willpower
How to know when it's time to let go even when everything in you wants to fight to hang on
This episode is for you if you've ever:
Felt like your body is screaming at you, but you keep pushing through with willpower
Wondered why you're exhausted despite doing all the "right things" for your health
Built impressive success, but it doesn't feel the way you thought it would
Questioned whether the hustle is actually worth what it's costing you
Felt trapped between the business you built and the life you actually want to live
Attributed chronic stress symptoms to "just having a lot going on" instead of hormones
Struggled with persistent low mood that nothing seems to fix
Been told by doctors that your symptoms are "just stress" or "normal aging"
Felt like you're the only parent carrying it all while trying to build something meaningful
Wondered who you are when you're not performing or proving anymore
Realized the version of success that got you here won't get you where you want to go
Known you need to let go but everything in you wants to hold on tighter
About Lisa Corduff
Lisa Corduff is a successful entrepreneur, speaker, and writer currently exploring the complexities of "this moment in time" on her podcast Conversations with Lisa. A powerful storyteller, she teaches experts, coaches, thought-leaders, and business owners who want to stand out online how to expertly weave stories into their content for greater impact, connection, and trust. She believes storytelling is, as it always has been, an essential skill for our times.
Connect with Lisa:
Website: lisacorduff.com
Instagram: @lisacorduff
Facebook: Lisa Corduff
Podcast: Conversations with Lisa
Grief Notes is the perfect support on your grief journey
What’s the Story teaches business owners how to grow their impact and make more sales using the power of storytelling
Back to You in Midlife is eight powerful exercises for women who have found themselves lost and disconnected from themselves in midlife.
Ready to stop overriding your body's messages and start honoring what it's trying to tell you?
This conversation between Lisa Corduff and me isn't just about hormones or business strategy. It's about the wake-up call that comes when your body finally says no to a version of success built on chronic stress, over-functioning, and pushing through at all costs.
Maybe you've been attributing your exhaustion to "just being busy." Maybe you've been telling yourself the persistent low mood will pass once things calm down. Maybe you've been white-knuckling your way through because you don't know another way to operate.
But here's what Lisa and I both learned the hard way: you can't out-discipline a dysregulated nervous system. You can't out-supplement tanked hormones. And you can't build sustainable success while abandoning yourself in the process.
The Congruency Audit is where we look at the gap between the success you've built on the outside and what you're actually feeling on the inside. We'll identify the exact patterns keeping you stuck in chronic stress, the cost of continuing to override your body's messages, and what it's going to take for you to finally create success that doesn't require you to sacrifice your health, your presence, or who you're becoming.
Book your Congruency Audit: lisacarpenter.ca/audit
This isn't about optimizing the version of yourself you built to survive. It's about creating congruence so the life you've built doesn't just look good - it finally feels right. Success that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
If you listen on Spotify:
Open the Spotify app on your phone.
Search for Lisa Carpenter and open her podcast page.
Tap the three dots under the podcast description.
Choose Rate show from the menu.
Select your star rating and tap Submit.
Lisa Corduff's Story
Lisa Corduff built a million-dollar business while her life was falling apart behind the scenes. Her husband Nick was struggling with addiction and mental health. She was solo parenting three young kids. And her business became the one place that felt purposeful when everything else was chaos.
She was creating non-stop. Documenting everything. Showing up in all the places because that's what successful entrepreneurs do, right? The frantic energy matched what was happening in her real life. And then Nick died in 2019. Lisa was 40 years old with three kids aged 5, 7, and 8, and she kept going because that's what you do when you're the only parent and three kids are depending on you.
But here's what nobody tells you about chronic stress: your body keeps the score. For years, Lisa would wake up every morning with her nervous system spiking, wondering "what's today going to bring?" She couldn't get back to sleep. Her system was wired for threat. And even after the acute crisis passed, her body remembered.
This year, everything shifted. At 45, Lisa finally got answers she didn't know she needed - ADHD and autism diagnoses that suddenly made her entire life make sense. She discovered her estrogen levels were tanked despite doing everything "right" - morning walks, good food, sleep hygiene, all of it. She realized that what she'd been calling stress was actually perimenopause masked by legitimate life chaos.
And she had to make a choice: keep running the frantic version of success she'd built, or completely redefine what success means when you're no longer willing to sacrifice your nervous system, your presence with your teenage kids, or your actual life for revenue targets.
In this raw, vulnerable conversation, Lisa reveals:
Why she went completely quiet this year after being one of the most visible entrepreneurs online for over a decade
The moment she realized her persistent low mood wasn't just grief or stress - it was disappearing estrogen
What getting diagnosed with ADHD and autism in her 40s taught her about the hustle she'd been celebrated for
How chronic stress from years of managing addiction, solo parenting, and business building dysregulated her nervous system (and why it didn't matter how well she took care of herself)
The shift from million-dollar years to redefining success around presence with her teenage kids
Why she had to let go of the "prove yourself through content" model and become what she calls a "lighthouse voice"
What it's really like to advocate for your own health when doctors dismiss perimenopausal women as overreacting to social media trends
How neurodivergence (ADHD + autism) shows up differently in high-achieving women who've learned to mask
The hidden cost of being everyone's rock while quietly crumbling inside
Why grief and addiction are the "unsexy topics" we need to talk about more
What happens when you finally honor your needs instead of overriding them with willpower
How to know when it's time to let go even when everything in you wants to fight to hang on
This episode is for you if you've ever:
Felt like your body is screaming at you, but you keep pushing through with willpower
Wondered why you're exhausted despite doing all the "right things" for your health
Built impressive success, but it doesn't feel the way you thought it would
Questioned whether the hustle is actually worth what it's costing you
Felt trapped between the business you built and the life you actually want to live
Attributed chronic stress symptoms to "just having a lot going on" instead of hormones
Struggled with persistent low mood that nothing seems to fix
Been told by doctors that your symptoms are "just stress" or "normal aging"
Felt like you're the only parent carrying it all while trying to build something meaningful
Wondered who you are when you're not performing or proving anymore
Realized the version of success that got you here won't get you where you want to go
Known you need to let go but everything in you wants to hold on tighter
About Lisa Corduff
Lisa Corduff is a successful entrepreneur, speaker, and writer currently exploring the complexities of "this moment in time" on her podcast Conversations with Lisa. A powerful storyteller, she teaches experts, coaches, thought-leaders, and business owners who want to stand out online how to expertly weave stories into their content for greater impact, connection, and trust. She believes storytelling is, as it always has been, an essential skill for our times.
Connect with Lisa:
Website: lisacorduff.com
Instagram: @lisacorduff
Facebook: Lisa Corduff
Podcast: Conversations with Lisa
Grief Notes is the perfect support on your grief journey
What’s the Story teaches business owners how to grow their impact and make more sales using the power of storytelling
Back to You in Midlife is eight powerful exercises for women who have found themselves lost and disconnected from themselves in midlife.
Ready to stop overriding your body's messages and start honoring what it's trying to tell you?
This conversation between Lisa Corduff and me isn't just about hormones or business strategy. It's about the wake-up call that comes when your body finally says no to a version of success built on chronic stress, over-functioning, and pushing through at all costs.
Maybe you've been attributing your exhaustion to "just being busy." Maybe you've been telling yourself the persistent low mood will pass once things calm down. Maybe you've been white-knuckling your way through because you don't know another way to operate.
But here's what Lisa and I both learned the hard way: you can't out-discipline a dysregulated nervous system. You can't out-supplement tanked hormones. And you can't build sustainable success while abandoning yourself in the process.
The Congruency Audit is where we look at the gap between the success you've built on the outside and what you're actually feeling on the inside. We'll identify the exact patterns keeping you stuck in chronic stress, the cost of continuing to override your body's messages, and what it's going to take for you to finally create success that doesn't require you to sacrifice your health, your presence, or who you're becoming.
Book your Congruency Audit: lisacarpenter.ca/audit
This isn't about optimizing the version of yourself you built to survive. It's about creating congruence so the life you've built doesn't just look good - it finally feels right. Success that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
If you listen on Spotify:
Open the Spotify app on your phone.
Search for Lisa Carpenter and open her podcast page.
Tap the three dots under the podcast description.
Choose Rate show from the menu.
Select your star rating and tap Submit.
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