In this deeply moving episode of Coffee Chat, hosts Lisa and Amber welcome their first-ever male guest, Pastor Randy Burns. With over 37 years of pastoral ministry experience and 26 years as a professional counselor, Randy brings profound insights into understanding trauma, the healing process, and how faith intersects with mental health. This conversation moves beyond theory when Randy leads Amber through a powerful healing prayer experience, demonstrating how God's presence can bring refreshment, clarity, and restoration. Whether you're carrying your own wounds or supporting loved ones through theirs, this episode offers practical wisdom for the journey toward wholeness.Chapter Notes:Introduction to Randy Burns (0:00-5:00)Randy Burns joins as the podcast's first male guestBackground in pastoral ministry (37 years) and counseling (26 years)Brief personal history on Randy's education and callingUnderstanding Trauma (5:00-15:00)Defining trauma as emotional overload, crushed spirit, or brokennessHow trauma can be experienced directly or witnessedThe impact of religious trauma and church experiencesHow unresolved trauma shapes our perception of GodSin as a Symptom (15:00-22:00)Looking beyond behaviors to underlying needs and woundsMinistry in challenging environmentsCreating safe spaces in church communitiesThe Healing Journey (22:00-32:00)Healing as a non-linear, layered processThe birthday party analogy - God addressing each stage of lifeHow sensory triggers connect to past traumaKnowing when you're ready to address past woundsMinistry with Unresolved Trauma (32:00-40:00)Can wounded people effectively minister to others?Setting healthy boundaries in helping relationshipsSelf-care practices for those in ministryThe "not the lifeguard on duty" principleHealing Prayer Experience (40:00-60:00)Randy guides Amber through a healing prayer sessionGrounding techniques and becoming presentCreating space to hear God speak to specific needsAmber's personal revelation and emotional releaseClosing Reflections (60:00-66:00)Simplified steps for healing prayerThe importance of having others walk with us through traumaDaily refreshment through God's presenceContact information and wrap-upGuest Bio: Randy Burns has served in pastoral ministry for 37 years and counseling for 26 years. He holds a master's degree in pastoral counseling and is a minister in one of Kansas City's most challenging neighborhoods. Randy brings a unique perspective on healing, combining professional expertise with personal experience and spiritual wisdom. Have Questions? Email Pastor Randy at [email protected]. Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

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