This episode features Dr. Katherine Kuhlman, a board-certified police and public safety psychologist, who works exclusively with first responders and their families. Together with Cyndi, she unpacks how extreme events like mass shootings impact not only officers but also their spouses, children, and communities. Dr. Kuhlman explains the unique psychological toll these events take, how families can recognize signs of trauma, and why preparation, communication, and finding purpose are key to resilience. What you'll learn in this episode: How extreme events differ from typical critical incidents for law enforcement The ripple effects on spouses, children, and entire communities Signs of trauma in officers, partners, and kids — and when to seek help Why preparation, code words, and drills matter for first responder families How finding purpose can fuel post-traumatic growth after tragedy 👩‍⚕️ Dr. Katherine Kuhlman works 100% with first responders and their families, providing expertise in traumatic stress, officer wellness, and family resilience. 📘 Grab Cyndi's book Hold the Line → https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08TPRTY9G#customerReviews 🎤 Book Cyndi for department trainings → https://code4couples.com/training/ 00:00 Intro & guest intro 02:00 What makes extreme events different from critical incidents 07:00 Spillover stress on families and children 14:00 Media scrutiny and second-guessing 20:00 Preparing families with drills & code words 25:00 Post-traumatic growth and finding purpose 32:00 How spouses can support officers after extreme events 36:00 Signs and symptoms of trauma to watch for 40:00 Closing thoughts & resources

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